AVOID APPEARING TO ACT LIKE A BOSS

Advice to Father Dassy, Superior of a large Oblate community:

You must make it easy for everyone to carry out their duties, avoid appearing to act like a boss and therefore willingly consult those who have been chosen to be your advisers; you must not fail to do this, especially at the times laid down in the Rule, so that you can never be accused of doing things or letting them go according to your whim.

Letter to Fr Toussaint Dassy in Nancy, France, 7 March 1848, EO X n 970

REFLECTION

The task of a leader is to facilitate the achieving of whatever the group stands for. Consultation and listening form an essential part of the picture.

“People ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the boss drives.” (Theodore Roosevelt)

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One Response to AVOID APPEARING TO ACT LIKE A BOSS

  1. Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate says:

    I think of how Eugene lived in the light of what Jesus did, in the light of Servant Leadership. Rather than doing this all on his own, he prayed and discerned and invited others to join him, each as members of the Founding Community. The Church joins in this as they approve and become the guardians of the community’s Constitutions and Rules. They are guardinas of the charism which the Holy Spirit first gave to Eugene.

    Ours is a community of persons who serve each other as well as the Church and all those to whom we are sent.

    The Oblate Motto is that: “We are sent to share the Good News with the poorest of the poor: the poor are evangelized.” I have always understood this to mean that when we ourselves share the Good News, that we too are evangelized: and we consult the others in our community as to the way that we do this. None of us are greater than any other.

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