IT IS THE DUTY OF THE SUPERIOR TO UPHOLD THE WORTH OF HIS MEMBERS, AS IT IS THE DUTY OF THE MEMBERS TO UPHOLD THE WORTH OF THE SUPERIOR

Continuing from the previous entry, we find Eugene correcting Father Honorat for having shared on the weakness of some of his community members with the diocesan bishop.

It is the duty of the superior to uphold the worth of his members, as it is the duty of the members to uphold the worth of the superior. This concerted charity profits the entire body and facilitates the good that it is called upon to do. So put aside such worry and know how to make the best of all that is given you, always allowing for what is human without being surprised or upset.

Letter to Fr Jean Baptiste Honorat, 7 October 1843, EO I n 27

I learnt the power of these words from former Superior General, Father Marcello Zago, a successor of St Eugene. He had appointed me to a position of responsibility and during this ministry I had made a short-sighted decision on a course of action that involved others and could not be changed for a year. He called me in and made me aware in no uncertain terms of the shortcomings of the decision. After dressing me down, he added: ” You know that I do not agree with you, but outside I will support your decision and defend it.” The following academic year I was able to correct the policy. I have never forgotten that lesson on how an authority figure relates with, corrects but supports his co-workers.

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One Response to IT IS THE DUTY OF THE SUPERIOR TO UPHOLD THE WORTH OF HIS MEMBERS, AS IT IS THE DUTY OF THE MEMBERS TO UPHOLD THE WORTH OF THE SUPERIOR

  1. Eleanor Rabnett, Oblate Associate says:

    The word “grasshopper” comes to mind. As in said in the movie “Kung Fu” where the master is speaking to the young student, calling him ‘grasshopper’. I never watched that movie in its entirety and yet for a moment I feel as if am the grasshopper with very much to learn. And instead of feeling humiliated I am humbled and grateful.

    Today I am reminded of Eugene’s habit of addressing concerns and actions with ‘dressings down’ to his many sons, while always ending with a reminder that he embraced them with his whole heart. Love makes the difference and I think of Eugene’s dying words to his sons: “charity, charity, charity…”

    And I am most grateful to Frank for sharing an example from his own life of the import of Eugene’s words. That has helped me to look at my own life and how love made a difference in how I received the messages from some of my teachers and guides and the effect that they had on me throughout my life. I see in Franks sharing love and inclusion as well as support and co-workers. This is what I find in the Mazenodian Family.

    This morning I have been invited to look at how I have been treated by some of my bosses, superiors and even co-workers, as well as how I treated those who worked both for and with me. The difference between management and leadership. I am reminded of some of my friends who are elders in their communities and how they have justly and lovingly advised, taught me, and continued to walk with me.

    Perhaps it is our perception of what is being said and how we choose to receive it.

    A valuable reminder for me not to simply rush in without thinking, evaluating, and reflecting…

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