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OUR DIVINE SAVIOUR WAS ALL THE MORE HONOURED IN THE SACRAMENT OF HIS LOVE
The Bishop of Dijon had written to me asking for some information about the association of the Adorers of the Blessed Sacrament which I approvedon June 30, 1848. I answered him saying that I had in fact authorised this association of the Adorers of the Blessed Sacrament because I could seenothing that was not edifying in the idea and that the promoters of this devotion were all very pious persons who rightly attached great value to thesuccess of their work.
IT IS REALLY OVERWHELMING
This Diary entry gives us a clear idea of the work capacity of Eugene. Superior General of Oblates in 4 continents, Bishop of the second-largest diocese of France, dealings with the Vatican offices, as well as his involvement in the political issues concerning the Pope who was an exile in Gaeta outside of Rome. He could no longer summarize all his letters in his diary.
I shall no longer quote my correspondence. It has increased too much and is really overwhelming. How is it possible, on my own, to keep up with all our houses in France, those in England and the missions in Canada, in the rest of America and in Algeria and Ceylon? So much for our own!And then there are the bishops, Rome, Gaeta and now Naples, and the affairs of my diocese!
Eugene de Mazenod’s Diary, 21 October 1849, EO XXII.
REFLECTION
“Many of us feel stress and get overwhelmed not because we’re taking on too much, but because we’re taking on too little of what really strengthens us.” (M. Buckingham)
The secret of Eugene’s coping with overwhelming responsibilities was his existential and life-giving relationship with Jesus Christ.
THERE MUST BE A BEGINNING TO EVERYTHING
The Bishop of Ajaccio, Corsica, was unhappy that Eugene had sent 26 year-old Fr. Berne to be a professor of theology at the Major Seminary. Eugene wrote to reassure the young Oblate.
As for all the rest, don’t worry about it. There must be a beginning to everything, and when one has the solid basis of instruction that you do, the wisdom, modesty and reserve that no one will deny you, plus kindness and the other qualities that I know you have, we need not be uneasy about decisions we take, nor about assuming responsibility.
The proposal of the Bishop of Ajaccio is one of these incivilities we easily forgive a man whose education was not too brilliant. Before giving vent to his comment, it would have been better to get information about you as a person. I am obliged to tell him, even if you have to endure hearing it, that I wish he and all his equals would find men like you for directors of seminaries…
Give an answer, my dear son, to these presumptions of superficial men by being doubly faithful in your duties. Pray for me and receive my paternal blessing which I give you from a heart that overflows.
To Fr. Berne, at Ajaccio, 25 November 1849, EO X n 1027
REFLECTION
“Never despise small beginnings, and don’t belittle your own accomplishments. Remember them and use them as inspiration as you go on to the next thing.” (C. Guillebeau)
COMMUNITY LEADERS GOVERN BROTHERS NOT SUBJECTS
While waiting to complete your community. I have written to Father Vincens to send you Father Chaine, who is very talented and preaches very well. This young Father is excellent, but accustomed to the paternal government of Father Vincens, he could not stand being treated as a schoolboy. Watch out for that. Superiors govern brothers not subjects. They are obliged to have much regard for the men who, even though placed under their governance, belong to the family, and even more for those who must cooperate with him in the good order and administration of the community…
Kindness is an indispensable quality for making obedience easy. In a word, reread the chapter that treats of the local superior and conform yourself to everything you find there.
Letter to Fr. Toussaint Dassy, 16 October 1849, EO X n. 1025
REFLECTION
Community leaders guide equals not subjects – kindness is an indispensable quality for making religious obedience and cooperation possible. Our vocation, in community and in ministry, is to be co-operators of the Savior who humbled himself to wash feet.
IT IS MUCH BETTER TO INSPIRE CONFIDENCE THAN TO FRIGHTEN PEOPLE
Fr. Dassy, community superior in Nancy, was highly talented but very severe and demanding with the members of his community.
To tell you the truth, my dear Father Dassy. I cannot open a letter coming from Nancy without trembling. Since I last visited that town. I have not received a single one that has not disturbed me more or less. But the one that I am now answering surpasses them all. What a horrible discovery!
Fr Dassy had written to tell Eugne about the serious misbehavior of one of the members of the community.
And in telling about such horrors, instead of doing your best to console me, you turn back into yourself once again to complain that I have reproached you for being too severe… You admit, you add, that you did not scold him enough. Yes, be sorry, my dear friend; it is much better to inspire confidence than to frighten people…
Letter to Fr. Toussaint Dassy, 16 October 1849, EO X n. 1025
REFLECTION
The Founder himself had a paternal love for each of the members of his religious family. He was severe when he had to be, but it was always within the context of his love for the person. We have several accounts of his exploding in anger at a situation, and then experiencing remorse when he realized he had hurt the person by being unduly harsh. A tearful hug always followed.