THE OBLATION OF BLESSED PAUL THOJ XYOOJ, LAY CATECHIST

We strive to reproduce in ourselves the pattern of his life. Thus, we give ourselves to the Father in obedience even unto death and dedicate ourselves to God’s people in unselfish love. Our apostolic zeal is sustained by the unreserved gift we make of ourselves in our oblation, an offering constantly renewed by the challenges of our mission. (Constitution 2)

This is the Mazenodian ideal that impels Oblates, in unselfish love, to give everything to the people as co-operators of the Savior – even unto death. Blessed Joseph Cebula, the Oblate Martyrs of Spain and of Laos have been recognized by the Church as martyrs. They are not the only Oblate martyrs – there are some 200 who have died as a result of their ministry. In Spain we have a layman, Blessed Cándido Castán who was put to death in the group Oblate martyrs.

Today, however, I would like to highlight a lay person, in danger of being forgotten, whom I consider as one of the “patron saints” of our lay Charismatic Family members.
Paul Thoj Xyooj, was enthralled by the vision of the Oblate mission and became associated with the Oblates, sharing their supreme oblation of martyrdom. Born in 1941, son of a local chief in the Province of Louang Prabang, he was in the first group of catechumens of the newly-arrived Oblate missionaries. At age 16 he expressed the desire to be a priest and went to the minor seminary. Realizing that his call was to marriage and not to priesthood, he left the seminary and became a catechist and worked with the Oblates among the Hmong people – being invaluable as he knew the language which the missionaries were struggling to learn. His simple faith was contagious (and brings a smile) as one of the eyewitnesses testified in reporting his teaching:

“You are people who have original sin, thus you are sinners, and we only live one time on this earth because we will die and become earth again. However, God loves us very much, he has not abandoned us; that is why he sent his only Son Jesus, who was crucified to bear all our sins. He was buried three days, and rose again. He is with his Father in heaven. Jesus will return for believers to resurrect them as he was resurrected. So all the men will be handsome and the women will be beautiful, everybody will be healthy, and they will have eternal life. They will live with God in Heaven, with love, like the birds flying in the sky without having to work but having food to eat and clothes to wear for eternity.”

At age 19, Xyooj accompanied Fr Mario Borzaga on his missionary journeys among the poor in the villages and was captured by rebels. Refusing to abandon the Oblate, he too received a martyr’s death. A member of the Mazenodian Family in life, he was beatified, together with 6 Oblates, and will continue to be an example of heroically living our founding vision and an intercessor for all members of Eugene’s universal family in our striving to live oblation.

Eyewitness have recounted his last moments as he pleaded with the rebels not to kill Fr. Borzaga:

The young Lao said, “Do not kill him, because  he is a very good priest, very kind to everyone; he only does good things! “But they did not want to believe him. He then said: “I’m not leaving, I’m staying with him; If you kill him, kill me too. There where he will be dead, I will be dead, and where he will live, I will live. “The rebels replied:” You’re really stubborn, so you want to die too? “He replied,” Yes! “And so they killed them both.

Blessed Paul Kyooj, pray for us.

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1 Response to THE OBLATION OF BLESSED PAUL THOJ XYOOJ, LAY CATECHIST

  1. Eleanor Rabnett, Oblate Associate says:

    Imagine having to face rebel soldiers with guns who are offering us continued life if we deny not only God but also the friends with whom we are standing. Do we have the love of God and our friends to stay with them, or do we silently slip away from them in order get out of the line of fire? Playing it safe.

    To deny love or to accept certain violence death – in places unknown, unnoticed…
    Blessed Paul Kyooj spoke simple yet eloquent words to describe life with the Beloved. He did not describe wealth or entitlement, or how to be a God. He loved and that was more than enough for him. His words were full of truth and most importantly how he lived in joy.

    Perhaps some of us might have secret dreams of dying in order to protect and accompany others we have been sent to love… In our dreams it is not about the “death and dying”, but rather about the loving and the living.

    Blessed Paul Kyooj was a truly a member of the Oblate Charismatic Family.

    There are many ways that we too die out of love for others. We let go of a particular way of being in order to serve those whom we have been sent to serve and accompany.

    I imagine that each of us could and do offer ourselves to God in obedience and dedicate ourselves to all of God’s people in unselfish love. We might not appear to be doing much, but we have begun to die to ourselves as we step up as sons and daughters of St. Eugene de Mazenod. We notice the joy of the others we meet and want to join with them in community, as pilgrims of hope in communion.

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