Not all approached by Eugene to join him on 25 January 2016 had the same sentiments as Henri Tempier. In this letter to his friend, Forbin Janson, Eugene gives vent to his feelings in a frank, and rather humorous, description of the reactions of some of his future companions.
Despite all this, they did get together and begin, and we are here today because in spite of their human frailties, they did manage to put the founding dream into reality. God certainly does work miracles despite the imperfect vessels we are!
The house was bought a long time ago; the church leased and partly repaired. All is ready on the material side but my men dither, the few that they are.
He on whom I was counting the most is letting himself be deterred by the cackling of the pious hens of his parish. He is convinced there is much good he can do his backyard. He hesitates to leave and I am dismayed by his indecision.
Another who excels constantly in proclaiming the Word of God to the people is only partially attached to our mission, being persuaded that he does enough good by himself on his travels to and fro.
A third, who is too incensed and vexed with the slowness of the others, threatens to take off by himself if they do not promptly make up their minds.
A fourth, who is an angel, and who seems destined to be the joy of a community, cannot obtain permission to leave his vicariate, although he protests that he cannot bear to stay and wants to work only in the mission field, etc.
I myself, overwhelmed with worries and cares, wage war listlessly, supported in the midst of this bother only by the supernatural outlook which inspires me, but which does not prevent me feeling the whole weight of my situation and all the more woefully in that I am helped neither by my taste or inclination which indeed are quite contrary to the kind of life which I am leading. All this God sends my way for my embarking on such a difficult venture.
How can I put up with a priest who pledges himself with words of absolute devotion and then comes to retract them for the reason that his mother, who has lived separately from him for ten years, cannot live without him – he would regard it as homicide were he not to give her the consolation of eating with her – and more twaddle of this sort?
The one who should have rendered us the greatest service went back on his word; he remains in his parish wherein he stirred up such a commotion with his ridiculous farewells and got the people so worked up that they opposed his departure.
Letter to Forbin Janson, 19 December 1815, EO. VI n. 8
The Carmelite convent Henri Tempier

There is a part of me that would like to romanticize the beginnings of the congregation: everyone in perfect accord with each other and all filled with the same kind of passion displayed by Eugene.
In the rubble of a decimated church following the French Revolution life was not idealic for the clergy or for the poor and the Preface provides us with a dramatic image of those times.
Eugene is filled with passion as he responds to Gods call using Jesus and the apostles as his model, exactly as we are called to do today no matter our state of life or a role in this Mazenodian family.
Today our world is filled with violence, wars, greed, and intolerance, while at the same time love perseveres and flourishes. And we are all brought together in a new unity not just of love but of living and dying in the midst of a pandemic. There is not one person who has not been affected in our time by this. Still our Mazenodian Family dreams and perseveres, even knowing the joy of new members, both lay and religious. We are unified no matter where we live through and in the charism of Eugene that has been shared with us. The charism of Saint Eugene de Mazenod is a gift of the Spirit to the Church, and it radiates throughout the world […] called to share in the charism according to their state of life They share in the charism in a spirit of communion and reciprocity amongst themselves and with the Oblates. (R 37a)
We began with Eugene and five others and today we are around the world, sharing in that same charism and I dare to use that word with its deepest and fullest meaning.
We must lead mankind to act like human beings, first of all, and then like Christians, and, finally, we must help them to become saints. (The Preface) It is in this loving service that we evangelize and are ourselves evangelized.