-
Recent Posts
- PAPAL APPROBATION: RECOGNIZING THAT THE CHURCH HAS SPOKEN
- PAPAL APPROBATION: RECOGNIZING OUR SUPERIOR GENERAL AS OUR SPECIAL STRENGTH AND SUPPORT
- PAPAL APPROBATION: RECOGNIZING OUR NAME AS THE EXPRESSION OF OUR IDENTITY
- PAPAL APPROBATION: TO CONTINUE CARRYING OUT OUR DUTY WORTHILY, FAITHFULLY FULFILLING OUR SPLENDID VOCATION
- PAPAL APPROBATION: THE OBLATE COMMITMENT TO BEING COOPERATORS OF THE SAVIOR IS RECOGNIZED AND GIVEN A LEGAL STANDING IN THE CHURCH, THE BODY OF CHRIST
Recent Comments
- Mildred March on A SUMMARY OF TEN YEARS OF OBLATE MINISTRY
- Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate on FAITH-FOCUSED INVESTMENT GROUPS: A PRESENCE WHERE DECISIONS AFFECTING THE FUTURE OF THE POOR ARE BEING MADE (Rule 9a)
- Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate on VIVAT: A PRESENCE WHERE DECISIONS AFFECTING THE FUTURE OF THE POOR ARE BEING MADE (Rule 9a)
- Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate on WE SHOW A VERY HUMAN FACE OF JESUS TO THE WORLD, ONE FULL OF COMPASSION AND SOLIDARITY (Rule 9a)
- Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate on JUSTICE, PEACE AND THE INTEGRITY OF CREATION AS AN INTEGRAL PART OF EVANGELIZATION (Rule 9a)
Archives
Meta
-
Poor Forbin-Janson and poor Eugene. It seems that his dear friend died only a couple of days after Eugene had visited with him and told him the truth concerning his health. And while some might ask how Forbin-Janson could have not figured out that the doctors were only telling him what he wanted to hear, we know how easy it is to remain blind about our own weaknesses and realities. We do it in how we dress and try to look and remain younger than our years and can blatantly ignore that which we don’t want to see or know. We do it in our various addictions…
How many of us have had to speak with friends or siblings, colleagues, etc. and share the truth of what they were doing to themselves? How many of us have had a true friend who has lovingly talked with us about the truth of our lives and where we are headed if we do not change? Eugene himself, in the years that Hubenig wrote of as being the “trials of an Apostolic Man” and how Eugene needed his dear friend Tempier and other founding companions to sit with him and speak the truth. I think of my true friends who have loved me and shared with me their views of how I might have or be harming myself.
It is love that gives us this great courage. As for the ministry of friendship that Eugene writes of. I have not thought of friendship being a ministry. It seems to be more of a gift as we walk with and stand at the foot of the cross with each other, especially when it would be so much easier to turn away, ignore or run from. And yet I guess that is a ministry in itself – a ministry of love.