HAVE CONFIDENCE IN OUR GOOD FATHER FOR WHOSE SAKE WE HAVE SACRIFICED EVERYTHING ON THIS EARTH, EVEN OUR LIFE

Father Viala, who was complaining about his assignment, was reminded of his action of total self-giving to God through his oblation.

So, my dear Father, be patient, do not ask for the impossible, have confidence in our good Father for whose sake we have sacrificed everything on this earth, even our life. Do not doubt that he will come to your aid, that he will give you back your health and your peace of soul, on condition that you live in holy indifference, a quality which assures the happiness of a good religious… For now, attend to regaining your health and continue doing the good work you have begun to do so well. Try to overcome the little dislikes and vexations that all of us meet in our lives; be worthy of yourself and your vocation and believe me, it costs me very much to contradict you, but I appeal to your heart and to your piety.

Farewell. I greet you very affectionately.

Letter to Fr. Jean Viala at Limoges, 21 June 1848, EO X n 979

REFLECTION

Father, I abandon myself into your hands; do with me what you will.
Whatever you may do, I thank you: I am ready for all, I accept all.
Let only your will be done in me, and in all your creatures – I wish no more than this, O Lord.
Into your hands I commend my soul: I offer it to you with all the love of my heart,
for I love you, Lord, and so need to give myself, to surrender myself into your hands without reserve,
and with boundless confidence, for you are my Father. (Charles de Foucald)

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THEY ENTRUST THEIR HEALTH – AS ALL OF US HAVE DONE AND ALL OF US SHOULD DO – TO THE PROVIDENCE OF GOD WHO GOVERNS US

Father Viala was unhappy in Limoges and blamed it on the climate affecting his health. His presence, however, was necessary for the success of the new mission and thus Eugene encouraged him by telling him why it was important to remain there.

In God’s name, my dear Father, calm your state of mind with the help of supernatural thoughts. What should we seek on this earth? to do God’s will. The secret of our happiness lies in conforming our will with his; if our will is grudging, we risk losing the merit of our obedience; at least we deprive ourselves of the consolations that always accompany our submission.

Reflect that several of our brothers have given up everything and crossed the seas to obey this divine will which was expressed to them through the very superiors who are keeping you in your present placement. Those among them who sleep on snow, who drag themselves over ice, who have nothing but a little bread for their food, and on lucky days, a piece of fat to rub on it, do not complain about their lot, and they entrust their health – as all of us have done and all of us should do – to the Providence of God who governs us.

Letter to Fr. Jean Viala at Limoges, 21 June 1848, EO X n 979

REFLECTION

“Take, O Lord, and receive my entire liberty, my memory, my understanding and my whole will.  All that I am and all that I possess You have given me: I surrender it all to You to be disposed of according to Your will.  Give me only Your love and Your grace; with these I will be rich enough, and will desire nothing more.” (St Ignatius of Loyola)

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IN GOD’S NAME, CALM YOUR STATE OF MIND WITH THE HELP OF SUPERNATURAL THOUGHTS

We have seen how the Oblates had established a community of missionaries in Limoges. Fr Hippolyte Courtès, who knew the spirit of the Founder, had been sent temporarily to launch the project. A member of that community, Fr Jean Viala, had written to Eugene to express that he was unhappy in Limoges and that the climate did not agree with him. Eugene responded:

I was very consoled, my dear Father Viala, to learn from your letter all the good you have accomplished in the diocese of Limoges. How is it, then, that you are asking me to withdraw you from there? Is it because you are suffering, but where is that not the case?

… You’ve allowed yourself to get too preoccupied, and, by not reminding yourself that we ought to be where Providence has placed us, you have given in to feeling worn out, and that’s the problem. But, my dear friend, think about our position with the Bishop of  Limoges. He writes me letter after letter urging me not to delay a moment in fulfilling the obligations we have contracted, he needs at least six capable missionaries, and it’s just when Father Courtès has withdrawn…

In God’s name, my dear Father, calm your state of mind with the help of supernatural thoughts.

Letter to Fr. Jean Viala at Limoges, 21 June 1848, EO X n 979

REFLECTION

Serenity comes from being in a loving relationship with God’s providence and allowing this to fill our thoughts.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” (Philippians 4:8)

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THIS SHIP NEEDS A GOOD COOL-HEADED PILOT

The situation in Limoges was tricky. As Eugene tried to find the right Oblates to respond to these challenges he was faced by the reality of human weakness.

If the Bishop had been less urgent, less threatening, let us say, in his demands, I would not have abandoned adopting the project that you proposed as feasible to me, that is, to give this mission to the care of Father Viala. The Father does indeed lack some things to do the task well; but since we can get used to him, and he does succeed rather well, it could have been achieved by persuading him that he must be more faithful to the Rules which govern the family and that he himself is to observe well that which he is obliged to have others observe.

Our Constitutions and Rules are intended to guide us in living our mission in accordance with the God-given spirit given to our Founder. Genuine fidelity to them covers our human weaknesses and foibles and ensures that we be God’s instruments to the people entrusted to our care. This was also to apply to Fr. Burfin with his impetuous personality

But everything was settled, and unless Father Burfin was to be left where he was, it was no longer possible to come back on what had been said. He did not prove very courageous in the proposal he made to you, together with Father Nicolas, to leave the situation and go back. That is a bad beginning. How is he going to pilot this ship which needs a good cool-headed pilot, who does not at the first commotion take an extreme position that compromises the very existence of a newly established foundation, that has been so well directed up to now. Of course, we have no choice.

Letter to Fr Hippolyte Courtès, 5 May 1848, EO X n 975

REFLECTION

 “Successful leaders see the opportunities in every difficulty rather than the difficulty in every opportunity.” (Reed Markham)

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I ADMIRE ALWAYS MORE YOUR ACTIVITY AND YOUR COURAGE

Dear Courtès, I admire always more (that does not mean that I am surprised) your activity and your courage. Your conduct since you have been entrusted with the difficult mission of Limoges is beyond all praise. You have shown what you can be, and I bless the Lord a thousand times that I gave you this trust, to show everybody what are your resources of mind and heart when you apply yourself to the task at hand.

Fr Courtès had been a member of the Founder’s Youth Congregation since 1817 and had been one of the first vocations to become a Missionary of Provence. He was Eugene’s confidant and friend throughout his life. Timid and prone to pessimism, he spent most of his life as the superior of the community in Aix en Provence. He had been chosen to start the first Oblate community in Limoges because it was a challenging foundation with much opposition from the local clergy. Courtès, who had imbibed the spirit of Eugene, was the right person to begin the new community on a sound footing according to our charism.

What a difference in comparison to that sedentary life that was so insufficient for a soul so full of energy like yours! And so I would regret to see you return to that quiet life which neutralizes a great part of the qualities you possess, and that I had wanted many times, but vainly until now, to have you in a situation to deploy them.

It makes me happy to be able to tell you that I approve in every way all that you have done since I gave you the direction of our establishment at Limoges. I only feared at times that you did not give enough care to your health, but the Lord has shown us that he comes to the help of those who have in view only his glory, and the success of the holy ministry entrusted to them. I do not gloss over the difficulties you will have to bring those who will succeed you to your ways of doing things.

May 6.

I am tired out. I do not remember what I wanted to add. Guess who turned me away from finishing my letter yesterday? Your father and your sister came to see me on purpose to tell me their fears for you. I reassured them by showing them your letter.

Letter to Fr Hippolyte Courtès, 5 May 1848, EO X n 975

REFLECTION

“Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” (Theodore Roosevelt)

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THIS FATHER IS EVER MORE ADMIRABLE FOR ACTION AND COURAGE

Within the context of the disorder and fear caused by the 1848 Revolution Eugene wrote in his diary:

Letter from Fr. Courtès. This Father is ever more admirable for action and courage. He returned to Limoges at the time of the rioting in order to reassure the newly arrived Fathers who arrived in the nick of time to help in all these disorders. Fr. Nicolas could not have asked better than to retrace his steps.

Eugene de Mazenod’s Diary, 4 May 1848, EO XXI

REFLECTION

Yvon Beaudoin provides the background to this Oblate foundation in Limoges:

“The year 1847 marked an important stage in the Congregation’s expansion in France. It took root in two dioceses far distant from Provence: Nancy in the northeast and Limoges in the centre. The second of these foundations “was as if directed by Providence Itself,” wrote Father Ortolan, “because no one had thought of them.” On October 3, Bishop de Mazenod received a letter from Bishop Bernard Buissas, Bishop of Limoges from 1844 to 1856, who suggested he establish a house of mission preachers in his episcopal city. Without success, he had already approached several religious congregations. Since he had heard “many good things about the Oblates,” he hastened to ask for a few priests. The very same day, the Founder wrote to Father Courtès to come as soon as possible to Marseilles because he needed him to “answer a letter of great interest. “Already October 7, he sent an answer to Bishop Buissas telling him that “there does, indeed, exist in the Church a small congregation whose main end is to evangelize the poor and to come to the aid of the most abandoned souls.” He told him that he was sending him some priests at the end of the annual retreat at the beginning of November. On October 19, he designated the personnel of the future community: Father Hippolyte Courtès, superior, Fathers Jean Viala and Scipion Chauliac and Brother Jean Bernard Ferrand. On November 17, accompanied by Father Tempier, they took possession of a huge house, recently constructed, surrounded by a garden that was adjacent to the park of the bishop’s house.

…Father Courtès was only sent to Limoges for the foundation and until Father Melchior Burfin would be free after the parish mission season.” (https://www.omiworld.org/lemma/limoges-1847-1904/)

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AVOID APPEARING TO ACT LIKE A BOSS

Advice to Father Dassy, Superior of a large Oblate community:

You must make it easy for everyone to carry out their duties, avoid appearing to act like a boss and therefore willingly consult those who have been chosen to be your advisers; you must not fail to do this, especially at the times laid down in the Rule, so that you can never be accused of doing things or letting them go according to your whim.

Letter to Fr Toussaint Dassy in Nancy, France, 7 March 1848, EO X n 970

REFLECTION

The task of a leader is to facilitate the achieving of whatever the group stands for. Consultation and listening form an essential part of the picture.

“People ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the boss drives.” (Theodore Roosevelt)

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SYNODALITY: LISTEN TO ONE ANOTHER IN CHARITY, AND BE GUIDED BY THE GOSPEL

Fr. Dassy was named superior of the new community in Nancy. He was a serious scholarly person and was in charge of a house of 20 people, including young priests and many novices. 28 year-old Fr. Santoni was the novice master, and it seems that the young priests had several differences of opinion with Fr Dassy. He had seemingly complained to Eugene.

Not only Father Santoni but all the young Fathers have the right to make observations to you but always with proper respect and reserve; but you yourself have the duty to conform yourself and to require that others conform themselves to what is written. In case of doubt, you should consult me. All this should be done with a view to the greater good, with all the consideration owed mutually by brothers who are moved by the charity of Jesus Christ and are well brought up. Take care, however, that you yourself set an example of the most scrupulous promptness in all that the Rule prescribes, whether for things or for people.

Letter to Fr Toussaint Dassy in Nancy, France, 7 March 1848, EO X n 970

REFLECTION

Eugene’s response was to refer him to the Oblate Constitutions and Rules, which were meant to be used as a guide for community life and mission.

In this time of synodality, it is interesting to see its spirit reflected in Eugene’s words. Authority has a duty to listen to the opinion of others, no matter how hurtful these may be. In these cases they are to be “moved by the charity of Jesus Christ.” It is not meant to be a subjective exercise, but guided by “what is written.” In this case it is the Gospel as it is reflected in the Oblate Rule, approved by the Church as an expression of the Gospel.

Is this not what synodality is: Listen to one another in charity and be guided by the Gospel.

“Consult your friend on all things, especially on those which respect yourself. His counsel may then be useful where your own self-love might impair your judgment.” (Lucius Seneca)

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THE GOOD FATHER PERRON HAS WELDED THEM TOGETHER BY HIS HOLY DEATH

After only seven years of a growing Oblate presence in England, the results were evident and promised well for the future. As shocked as the Congregation had been at the untimely death of Fr Perron, Eugene saw his influence in the closeness of the Oblate community in heaven which interceded for the missionaries.

Our missions in England are so prosperous that had the revolution not occurred, I would have gone to visit them this year. The good Father Perron has welded them together by his holy death.

They are served just now by Frs. Daly, Tamburini, Naughten, Cooke, Noble, Grey, Walsh, Bradshaw and Hickey. You should know several of these good Fathers as well as Bro. Cauvin whom I am sending this very day to America with four others who entered novitiate after your departure.

Letter to Fr Henri Faraud, in Canada, 10 May 1848, EO I n 95

REFLECTION

Eugene’s confidence in God’s providence gave him the courage to dare the seemingly impossible for the “glory of God, the good of the Church, and the salvation of souls”. Eight of the nine Oblates were local vocations.

“Christ wants not nibblers of the possible, but grabbers of the impossible.” (C.T. Studd)

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WE HAVE GREAT INTERESTS AT STAKE

You will not be surprised if I do not make a visit to England as I had planned; but I could not refrain from sending Father Aubert. We have great interests at stake. There is question of accepting a beautiful property for a novitiate, and regulating many other things. He will go to that country at the end of next month, and remain only long enough to establish our houses.

Letter to Fr Ambroise Vincens, 26 April, 1848, EO X n 974

Father Daly, with no consultation, had bought an expensive property in England. He had hoped to collect the money from benefactors and to establish a novitiate to serve the growing number of vocations. This project ended in disaster because to pay the inflated price demanded by the unscrupulous vendor, Fr. Daly was forced to offer the title deeds of Penzance as collateral. After prolonged litigation the decision was given against Fr. Daly and the property of Penzance mission was seized. The Oblates were forced to give up that mission. (See https://www.omiworld.org/lemma/anglo-irish-province-1841-1945/)

REFLECTION

“An optimist is a person who sees a green light everywhere, while a pessimist sees only the red stoplight… the truly wise person is colorblind.” (Albert Schweitzer)

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