We catch a passing glimpse into the affectivity of the busy Eugene in the midst of his many preoccupations: his need to express his attachment and joy at being able to share more deeply with some of his Oblate sons. This lifelong aspect of Eugene’s character was mirrored in his devotion to Lazarus, the friend of Jesus, with whom Jesus spent time in the Gospel.
I will explain myself subsequently viva voce, when I will have the pleasure of seeing you at Aix. You know with what abandon I love to converse with those of my children who, like yourself, deserve all my confidence and of whose attachment, either for me or for the Society, I am aware ….
I embrace you with all my heart and enjoin you to get well quickly. Adieu.
Letter to Marius Suzanne, 9 May 1827. EO VII n 270
“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.” Henri Nouwen